Tiaya or Tiaya Maria as she sometimes calls herself is a very generous and affectionate girl. In the best way possible she is very feminine and gentle by nature but also seems to know what she wants from life. You can see her interview herehttps://davidbonnie.com/2020/11/09/bangkok-lives-tiaya-maria/
I can’t promise to answer the question and that’s not what I am about. Rather, I am just posing the question and sometimes an opinion. Read between the lines. That skill is entirel necessary in our age of doubt, authoritarianism and denial of the facts. How long will it be before Thai ladyboys and girls begin to look down on Caucasian men? How long before the pendulum swings to it’s apogee? Living in Thailand requires a degree of fortitude and unashamed celebration of who you are. Are you in, brother? Are you in?
Lana is the ultimate fun companion! She’s beautiful and one of those girls who is far, far more lovely and sexy in the flesh. She is also unassuming and unlike most ladyboys is not constantly looking in the mirror. She would probably prefer being in the countryside or at the beach than most other activities. She has a reputation for her sexual prowess and shale we say, accommodating nature, but that is only one small piece of her. She really is one of those girls that reminds us what we love about Thailand.
Natty is quite incredible. I have never seen a body quite like hers! She is a post-op ladyboy which makes her all the more unusual! She is very easy going, no drama type girl but her most special features are very evident!
Both of these ladyboys; BB and Yaya have the most beautiful bone structers I have seen in Thailand. That sound sfunny, I know, but it’s true just look at those gorgeous faces.
Both are problematic. One is very distant at least with me and one I have seen grow thinner and thinner over at least 5 years I have known her. Two interesting case studies I think as well as beeing very beautiful. Yaya in particular seems like a lovely person ( mankeow-I just want to eat her, as the Thai people say) who just needs someone to support, guide her . . . . therein lies the rub . . .she’s beautiful, if she wanted to change her life don’t you think she would have done so by now. Don’t you think a hundred well intentioned farangs would have tried to be her boyfriend. guide, inspiration to change? They have to do it themselves or else you open a door to endless pain into your lives . . . .sad and often true.
A cute girl behind a tough exterior or a tough girl behind a cute exterior . . . . .I don’t know!! What do you think?
So here is one of those stories that was not funny at the time but is now. It’s wrapped in a sad collection of events that often take place when I have primed a ladyboy (always beautiful, often not too bright) to make a video with me. We agree to plan the video shoot the following week but when I call the day before to remind her she says, “What Viideo” its a source of amusement to colleauges but immense irritation to me . . but hey, it’s the Thai way, what can a man do?
As pure as driven snow, as refreshing as a long glass of fresh milk, as white as an angel’s wing . . . . .well maybe not quite but Milk (Num Sod) is a lovely, calming girl who certainly refreshes and feeds the jaded soul!
Trish is from the Phillipines but is living in Bangkok. She finds society more open. She has the firm athletic body that is often seen in young ladyboys pre-hormones/pre-surgery but Trish has great boobs and a great sense of humour.
On dealing with Tree Trunks, Conveyor Belts and Perfunctory-ness!
Pim is so easy to be around. As well as being the ultimate fun-time girl, she’s smart and witty, a little shy but brave enough to try new things. This girl really hits the spot!
Anna is something of a fruitcake . . . in a very good way! She is a lot of fun but actually a sensitive soul and a real charmer. She gives and seeks attention a bit like a cat but with a more affectionate streak. She is a smart girl, speaking english well and very good company.
Your breath is sweet, your eyes are like Two jewels in the sky Your back is straight, your hair is smooth On the pillow where you lie
But I don’t sense affection Nor gratitude or love Your loyalty is not to me but to the stars above
She’s got a good future if she can live past next week.You said what? You’re friends. Brother there ain’t no friends in this business.
When you can’t see the angles no more, you’re in trouble, baby. You’re in trouble.The street is watchin. She is watchin’ all the time.
Prim was born in Bangkok and is as straight as they come. She is ambitious and would like to open a restaurant and cook Isaan food. She likes it spicy!
The story of Focus is the perfect metaphor for Bangkok where one should not even believe ones own eyes never mind ears. A place where people defy logic and culture masks intentions.
Jan or Snow White (her alter ego) is a beautiful, voluptuous but shy ladyboy who is originally from Roi Et in the North-East. She is a graduate and works in the cosmetics business. Like most Thai people things are tough just now with little or no safety net during Covid. Jan still has a whimsical smile and looking into her eyes makes a man wonder just what she is thinking!
Mo is pretty unassuming but has a clarity of both looks and thoughts that grow on a person. Her skin is almost translucent. She has the face of a model. Her remarks about Equality were thought provoking; was it just a heartfelt comment or warning sign? Mo has had a hard life with no family and i am surprised no farang has made her his girlfriend. Despite her youth she seems to have a pretty mature head on her shoulders? But enough of her brain and motivations, she’s an absolutely flawless little diamond!
My Top Ten Ladyboy Songs (part two) 5-1
Fixxy is one of Bangkok’s few Blonde Bombshells. She is a voluptuous and sexy girl! She is an easy going girl with no sense of entitlement which makes her easy to be with. She is no diva!
Music plays an important part in most people’s lives. A song is not only evocative of a time in history but also helps to “pin” a memory in time and one’s emotions. 1978 NAAFI break, London, basic military training. Sweating, running under pressure and only 10 minutes to grab a drink and food. On the jukebox, Blondie sang Heart of Glass. A never forgotten period in my life. These are the moments from my life when I came to Thailand. The music that pinned some special and sometimes crazy memories in time!